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The Other Gay One: Some Curses of Being Highly Sensitive

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People who are highly sensitive, often struggle with the following:

1. They are easily overwhelmed, and often feel stressed through being overstimulated: That is, they often feel exhausted, stressed, worn out and worn down by processing so much detail - or through vicariously experiencing too much pain in the lives of others.

2. They are more personally affected by others’ emotions: Thus, they find it hard to detach themselves, or throw off the feelings and heartache of others. Instead, they tend to absorb anger, pain and distress when others  around them are experiencing these.  

3. They need more time and space for themselves: In order to restore their boundaries, to refresh their minds and renew their energy, highly sensitive people need to retreat, and to spend time alone. Unfortunately, others may jude them as being unsociable as they don’t understand their need to withdraw.

4. They may feel driven by unhealthy perfectionism: They often have unrealistic expectations, and are harsh, unforgiving and demanding of themselves. This is because they overanalyse, and worry about what other people think and want. (Related to this, many highly sensitive people also suffer from low self-esteem.)  

5. They may feel out of sync with the people around them: The western world values extroverted people who are confident, lively and highly sociable. This can add extra pressure to more sensitive people who are cautious, and careful of the judgments of others. They can also feel they’re seen as being too sensitive, or as too emotional, or not tough enough. 

For more information see: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/03/28/5-gifts-of-being-highly-sensitive/

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“She’s so stupid! She doesn’t even know how to behave in public! I hate her so much. She better quit acting and learn how to smile more!”

“Oh my god, she’s so awesome. She’s perfect, please have another oscar for your life and all the choices you make! I LOVE YOU!”

Do you see the problem, Tumblr? Do you see it?

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Stumbled across this blog today and before I knew it my old love for the Marauders had knocked me unconscious and then locked me inside a damp decaying cell far away from my history paper.
this started out as a doodle I DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT HAPPENED

vorstens:

Stumbled across this blog today and before I knew it my old love for the Marauders had knocked me unconscious and then locked me inside a damp decaying cell far away from my history paper.

this started out as a doodle I DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT HAPPENED

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nothing worse than your social anxiety getting mistaken for rudeness

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Smart, funny, beautiful, it’s the whole package! It’s everything you’re afraid to let yourself want. In a… joke.

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ANGEL: “Cordelia has every right to feel the way that she does and I’m willing to give her the room that she needs.”
WESLEY: “Good. Good. I think that’s just the right attitude. Time and space. Those are really the only things one can give in a situation like this. As long as we both understand that, the healing process can―”

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historymiss:

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“Why Would You Tag That”

a musical about trying to find interesting relevant things under your favorite fandom tag

Includes the stirring ensemble number ‘If I See Another RP Ad I Will Murder Someone’

“Nobody Has Seen That Image Macro Before Please Re-Post It Again”

#”stop fucking tagging your liveblog god damn you

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